Death of a Love Story

   Everybody dreams and fantasizes about certain things, situations, people, anything really. Whatever  is heavy on your heart and mind at the time generally gets the most attention. It's any easy access to the things we only wish we had and makes us only more motivated to achieve them. The only thing is you never really think about the negative side of living "The Dream." Espesicaly when it comes to things as fateful and random as love. Now I know it's an amazing and wonderful thing if you're dreaming about love and it starts to come together as you had in visioned. But not every love story has a happy ending, especially today with all the dating websites, the Internet, long distance relationships. These days you never the old "We meet at the school dance and we've been happy ever after." There's just a different approach to love now. We try to manufacture it in my opinion. They think, I want a baby at a certain age, the right religion, the right race, the right family dynamics, the right looks, on and on and on. You just end up being more blind to the fact that love is all about fate and randomness, the unexpected. Two people brought together by fate not passing a vigorous checklist before you would even consider them. Because even if you find "the one", someone who fits all your criteria. You can still end up resenting them for not living up to your expectations you had for them. Or you can end up being unhappy just going along with it because you think it's the best situation for you. And the more comfterble you get with living unhappy, the harder it's going to be to change. It's never going to be easy but you have to decide if you can actually work it out and be happy together again or end it.
   The death of a love story is only the begining of a new one and you will have a more open mind and understanding of what really matters.